A Wonderful Walk Ends With an Unfortunate Reminder of These Times

A few weeks ago we walked through a neighborhood of beautiful old houses in Pasadena. In two short hours, we viewed beautiful architecture, visited with a neighborly woman who enjoyed telling us about her 1886 house, and went on an unplanned self-guided tour of a courthouse that has been in its past life both a […]

Reading Makes the World Wider

I love reading, even the sadness of turning the final page and seeing the simple, yet solemn words: The End. I know that the final gleam of story will linger inside me. The story lives. And my world is wider. – Natalie

Natalie and I were talking the other day how we feel […]

Thinking About Time, as is Wonder Woman

Early in the wonderful movie “Wonder Woman,” Diana asks the human who has landed in her midst what his wristwatch is. And he explains that it tells him when it’s time to do something and she, in disbelief, says: “You let that thing tell you what to do?” The wristwatch takes on powerful symbolism […]

Taking Small Steps is the Way Toward Desired Change

Making small changes can even lead to more lasting solutions than big changes. I have always found this idea so reassuring. If I think about making a big change, big step, big decision, I can easily feel paralyzed, overwhelmed and indecisive. Small change are do-able!

Moreover, I have learned that making smaller changes can have […]

Hidden Inside Some of Our Quirks: Our Talents

Some quirks are undeniably annoying. But so many more are not. Natalie, Bill and I made a list of some of our quirks. We discovered that some of our quirks are actually talents, lovable traits, or allow us (and our companions) to laugh with pleasure. What are some of your quirks?

Remember: hidden inside some […]

Scraping Away Injustice Like Irmela

When I have a feeling I will want to re-read a newspaper article, I cut it out and put it in my clippings file. When I re-read the article, I sometimes find myself jotting down ideas or writing down what I learned from reading the article.

One such article was a New York Times article […]

Noticing Beautiful Math in Nature

If you look closely at a sunflower, the base of a pinecone, or the shell of a snail, you will see a spiral, one of the ways nature organizes form. The math that describes the geometry of a spiral is call the Fibonacci Series. It is created by adding the two previous numbers in a […]

Tai Chi Class = One Room Schoolhouse

For the past two months, I have been taking a tai chi class. Forty years ago, Koncho (an honorary title for my teacher and “head of school”) moved to the United States from Japan. Although he speaks English much better than he thinks, he will sometimes explain a tai chi movement in Japanese. Because there […]

Remembering a Moment From Each Year of Your Life

Can you remember a distinct moment from each year you have been alive? It’s kind of fun to try. Last year on Natalie’s 19th birthday, we sat in our garden in the dark and lit a candle each time Natalie remembered something from each of her 18 previous years. The 19th candle was a […]

One of Life's Pleasures: Reading Aloud

It is by going down into the abyss that we recover the treasures of life.

Where you stumble, there lies your treasure. – Joseph Campbell

Sometimes we stumble, and we think we can’t stand up again. The power of stories is that they can help us stand up […]